Sometimes it's really hard to make decision to stop or to continue. Questions will arise.
Why stop and why continue? This issue struck me when my mum and my sister were having this converation just now.
My sister's boyfriend went to Singapore to find a job. Academically he's not good. He went to Singapore for about 2 weeks. He found his first job but according to him it was too hard for him. It was a dobby shop. Everyday he had to carry 12kg clothes into the machines and out of the machines per round. So he quited. Days later, he found another job. It was a factory which bake breads. He has no experience in this and he was too slow to get the breads out and in again. So he was fired.
Now that he is back in Ipoh. My family was trying to help him look for job. Then mum got to know that Oversea Restaurant has vacancy so mum asked him to go for the intertview. My sister called him and told him about it. But he refused to go. Sigh... He wants to go Singapore again. Sigh...My sister is sad that he is very immatured.
So my mum commented. She said if his attitude is still like that, might as well break with him. Em...mum said later got married then only regret will be late already.
By the way, he is a person who is lack of encouragement by his family and his mum had passed on long ago. Now that he's no job and still "job-hopping", there are alot of stress coming in. He's kinda lost his confidence in life.
Em...though i was not very happy about his attitude towards everything, a thought came to my mind. If i were my sister, should i continue this relationship or should i stop it? Thinking about love, what is love all about? If i really love this guy, i think i should help him overcome whatever problem he's facing now until he find himself again, supporting him. But being realistic, what if he can't change his attitude? I'm a Christian, i can pray for my boyfriend, but they don't have God. How are they going to think the way Christians think? What my mum worry is my sister's future. She got her point but what is love all about then? Should we just stop for our own sake or try our best to live until we are sure that we are not compatible?
Sigh...it's not easy to live a life but it depends on how you view life. Life without God is not life at all. Many people/Christians may feel that working for the Lord or walking in His way is a burden. But where does this burden come from? It's when we try to disobey Him. If we surrender ourselves unto God i think the life that we desire will come true! I'm one of them.
It's hard to surrender to a God that we can't see. FAITHLESS is the word.
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